I had cut down to 1 e-mail a day a couple of weeks ago, now I think I will cut back to 0 e-mails a day, unless really necessary (about the kids).
If that means you were sending one email a day, I would agree. If he wants to know about their daily activities he can ask. It's certainly not your job to keep him informed.
I think we do that initially because it's a carry-over fromt eh marriage days and it keeps us us connected. Really it's pursuit. Be the one in charge of your emotions here and stop the emails. Allow his relationship with his children to be his responsibility.
Hope you have a great day!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
