Sorry for the delay in my response. MC went really well. We only had 4 sessions through my EAP, but I'm going to IC and he is as well and the MC suggested we have a few more sessions in a few months after going to IC.

H got a job yesterday. It's only a temporary one for 6 weeks, but if it works out, they have a permanent position opening up at the end, as well. They flat out told him that if he does well, he'll get it. I'm really happy about this. It's a HUGE weight off my shoulders. We can also move out in the fall after we save some more (I want to have a bigger nest egg in the event of an emergency). H seems happier since he found out, as well. It gave him some much needed confidence. Better still, it's in the same office building as mine (different floors, different companies), so no extra money to spend on gas. The only difference is that he has to start at 8am and I start at 9am, but I can always get some extra work done or go for a walk (GAL, more exercise). This is a very good thing.

My mom was so happy she cried. She loves H. It's hard not to tell her what has been going on these past few months (we're very close). I just told her that H was having a lot of issues with his anxiety and depression and they got really bad, and that's all she needs to now. She says it must have been really hard on my to shoulder it all alone, but she really has no idea. But it wouldn't help anyone to tell her the truth. It's just too hurtful and she wouldn't understand. Like I said, she LOVES H. She thinks the world of him and I'm getting back there, myself, so I wouldn't want to do anything that would make this already difficult process even harder.

Starting my rug-hooking next week. Mom and I went out to dinner and will be shopping this weekend. It's nice that she's back from Florida (snow birds...) and we can spend some time together again.


M:29
H:30
M:2.5 years
T:13 years
No kids
EA:11/2011
PA:01/2012
Bomb:02/2012
H starting another EA, I had enough and we seperate: 03/08/2012
Trying to decide what I want for a change...