Hey wendy,

What about the book is a hard read for you?
I know when I started reading up on co dependency it was very confusing for me.I just couldn't quite grasp exactly what it meant. This book seemed to explain it a little better for me.

You know I was just posting how much I liked this book and then went and read a few more chapters. I think Im at chapter 7. At any rate I started to realize this book isn't exactly what I was hoping it was.

Guess I thought it would be a step by step program on how to not to be co depdendent. What I did like is it explained co dependency in a way I can understand it. However all the issues it lists in co dependent people makes it sound like anyone that breathes and is human is co dependent.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.