Ssmguy I think there is a lot of truth in your earlier comment about getting friend zoned. Living in a sexless marriage is a lot like getting friend zoned, you are used for emotional support, but not meant to get sex.
That's saved for the sexy alpha males
Not saying that's necessarily what is going on in her mind. Although it does validate my earlier comment about having the ability to make sparks fly. If you couldn't get her sparks to fly when you first met, it's reasonable to say that you wouldn't be able to a few years down the line. That is unless you change your tactics and approach to getting sex.
That's why I'm trying to relearn how to seduce, so that I can recapture the magic I have clearly forgotten.
