My situation is as follows: married almost 25 years...young, too young. H was in the military and we had kids too young. They are grown now. H is a blamer. I am to blame for unrealized dreams, keeping him from achieving his goals, and in short, for being born. H is very sexual, and I don't put out enough. So he cheats...a lot.
Sorry if I sound down tonight. Had a sitch where my septic tank back flowed into my house, and had to break my silence to text him for money. Didn't go well. I was blamed for the septic tank problem--karma he said, and told that I always have an emergency that he is supposed to fix. When will I learn to detach completely. H is so deep in the fog, that I believe he will never come out of it.
