Hi Everyone,
I just wanted to tell anyone that hasn't read Co dependent No more...needs to read it!

This book is fascinating! It's enlightening me to so many things not only about myself....but dare I say my XH! I surely was NOT expecting that! Now that's an eye opener, when you see you BOTH

My whole family dynamic is in this book as well as his family dynamic!

I am so happy to have finally found this book. I think if I can really apply the tools, I really will have the life I always wanted but knew I could have. I just didn't know exactly how to get there, that's all.

Im proud to announce my attatchment is going well. I don't sense attatchment until Xh starts coming around and being nice. Now that really presses those co dependent buttons you see. I can't believe how many years I really did spend trying to control his feelings towards me or basically how he treated me b


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.