the path is the goal...

[zig]

thanks nemo - i wish i had your skills - i'm terribly lacking in that dept., but am starting to see what i do wrong here.

you really have the whole spectrum to deal with between the three don't you?

i wish i had gone to see this therapist months ago to help me separate and sort out my emotions from s's during this sitch

about changing the topic: well, s changes it immediately - so there's no opportunity. i guess he's been telling me for months that he simply does not want to discuss it at all , period and i'm frustrated and i have to let it go and let him come to me

thanks for your help and hope your'e doing well

zig