thnaks ces - you are so right - and as i was gradually beginning to realize that the last few days, your words solidified this for me - and then i find myself thinking -same for h also
i'm so glad to hear that you are feeling more connected with your daughter again - in fact if it's anything like what i feel when i connect with s, then you must be in heaven
we expect so much (sigh) even while we keep telling ourselves no expectations...
((( ))) zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"