Wendy,
The ow is not as crazy as you think...she knows exactly what she is doing and she also knows that if she created doubt and anger between you and your h, the better it will be for her. File the messages away and try not to discuss them w/your h. You just may need those messages for documentation in the future.

How is your friend doing?


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.