Time to let go of the ordinary...#35

[kat727]

WAs talking to my parents today over lunch and the subject of my boys came up. I mentioned how S16 has had a few girlfriends but how mostly that was him going over to her house while her parents were there or meeting up at the movies. He isn't even in a rush to drive!

His big brother though is so wrapped up with his girlfriend. she talks about marriage and their future and I am just thinking whoa...you guys are just 18 and 19. Enjoy your early adult years, no need to rush anything.

My Dad brings up K and how we were so "serious" until right before I was going to Denmark. I said ok, but I wasn't over at his house all of the time. My Dad said I had a hard time with us breaking up and how I just couldn't let it go. I didn't see it that way, though it took a long time to get over him. Best to leave that all alone, I don't need to be a back up or second choice.

kat