Thanks there KD for your post.One of the positives out of all this mess is my relationship with my kids. i actually have them pretty much half the time and sometimes maybe a little more.
since the W isnt around when i have them its just me interacting with them, like a single parent . our relationship in the past was good, i thought, but i would call it great now. In fact the W comments on it pretty often.
She assumed, i guess, that i would be a dead beat dad. She has commented many times that was one of the major reasons for all this is she believed that i wanted to be single and not be a part of the family.
I know im doing a good job with them and doing things to stay busy.i feel like all my strength lately comes from them. i can see and so can W that they always look forward to there time with me. this is something im very gratefull for. Thats why it stings so bad t have OM around them. I have no trust or respect for him and dont want my kids around him. I have no control over this i know.
