Well, the plot thickens. Evidently my H did go see OW while he was in DC. The screen shots are of maps from some program called Latitudes where you share your location with your "Friends". Great blackmail tool.
So now I know where in Arkansas he was. And why after 7 years of him refusing to travel for work he has started up again. (For the extra money that I would not know about.) He has it sent to his new account he set up. So he can pay his new credit card.
So he has been spending money on OW. His extra travel money he gets is his "Budget". Because yes I called him. And I know we are done, but why does he keep lying when the truth would suit better.
It made no sense to me that he would go clear to DC and not get in a side trip to OW. Does he really think I'm that stupid? And he may not know this, but his extra travel money is still income.
And her breaking up with him because I took the master bedroom while he was off seeing her? Whatever. That will never be her bedroom. It is mine. I am who he bought this house for, I am the one who wakes up with a panoramic view of Kaneohe Bay every morning.
And when I wake up alone in my bed now days and look out at the beauty before me I drink it in and know that I am special enough to deserve it! And someday I might wake up with someone special enough to share the beauty of the day with, but for right now I am okay with being alone and being myself.
Okay off to take care of my friend!
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
