"and burst out with so when will we see her again , how about 2 weeks is that ok with you. i was disappointed and about to say, wouldn't every week be better, but i stayed silent for a sec, and then he said, well i should stop asking you and just say what i want to do. i replied that i would appreciate that very much if he said what he wanted. and so he said he wanted to go after 2 weeks. and i said that would be fine."
Take another look at that.
Do you see how that COULD have turned out?
Do you see what went REALLY WELL there?
Could you describe your feelings right after that convo? I don't mean the frustration... but the feeling that you had... right after the frustration and anger left your body...
