So... your H had worked himself up for battle before stepping onto the field...?
Do you feel that is pretty normal behaviour for him, even prior to bomb?
Also, you say this: "at one point(because he kept interrupting and saying it wasn't true) i turned to him and said could we please agree to just listen to what the other one is saying even if we don't agree?"
Is this a pattern for the two of you?
Do you always feel that he interrupts you?
Do you always feel better after chastising him for interrupting or for not listening... even though you do not actually know if he was listening...?
And at the end of your post... you mention that you are thinking of calling him back to smooth things out...
Is that normal behaviour for you? Your pattern...?
What path is that behaviour likely to lead you down?