I think that you should post where ever you feel most comfortable. And if it is here in piecing, then welcome!
Work on you! And do you think you are controling? if so that's where you need to begin. Stop being controling then. Your H told you what the problem is so if you want to and you agree with him, fix you.
It seems like he is not sure what he wants to do. So work on you. I was a controller the last few yrs; I listened to well meaning friends, not myself. I didn't want to be controlling.
Can you find your old thread, if not maybe I can so we can go back and read it.
