Thanks for dropping by Beibs and KD...who now is officially Kraft Dinner! Nothing like some good ol' mac and cheese! grin

Yep, JB...things are GOOD, and in large part, thanks to YOU and others here. Those times when I was ready to give up, you were one of those who helped remind me to take a deep breath. I am forever grateful for your friendship. KD, you, too, are a calm voice of reason on the boards, who I am grateful for. I always gain insight when I read your comments on other threads. Both of you guys are an asset to this community.

I wish someone had taught me DR principles before saying "I do", as they truly are important principles to enforce throughout marriage, including when times are good. I've also used the principles in my other relationships...with kids, family members, friends, etc. I know you have done the same, JB!

Lovingly enforcing boundaries and respecting each other's boundaries has been key for our reconciliation as well. Before, I think my husband and I both just assumed what was acceptable and what wasn't for the other person. Now that we have a clear understanding of each other's boundaries as well as each other's needs, things run SO much more smoothly!

JB, you are correct in that this is an ULTRAmarathon! I appreciate your ongoing prayers and thoughts, and know that I do the same for you.

Thanks guys! love, nickel wink


aka lc4 : )