how about thinking about the kids watching OM dressed in a bunny suit pooping out eggs trying to impress the kids...?
hate to say it man, but your kids will or will not like the OM based on the OM and does not mean that you will ever be replaced as their dad... the one and only... he is just some guy their mom is dating...
and when he gets drunk and stupid... when he's an idiot... when he's making their mom choose between him and them... your kids won't be real impressed... because they want your W to be happy... they want someone to be nice to their mom... ALL the time...
or maybe... just maybe... your kids see this guy as someone who stole their mom from their dad...
What memories did you make for the kids for easter?