I've known women like the one you envied, and felt their pain--many feel lonely and insecure after a time because people only want them for their perfect "packaging," and don't care to connect with the human being inside.
Most of the dissatisfactions, straw man arguments and negative opinions around sexual relations which you express seem like the sorts of obsessions that people who are happy with their own lives couldn't be bothered to waste their energy on. As 25 has several times asked, what are you looking for here? So many of your posts seem centred on rationalizing that nothing will change or improve, for anyone.
GreenBlue,
Okay, entire seminars on how to pick up women--that does seem a little creepy. On the other hand, books on how to really communicate with the other sex--not so bad.
"I can tell she loves being around the coy, confident, devious little flirt I am now." That's wonderful, and it sounds as if you really enjoy being that sexy guy--which should serve you well whether you "close the deal" or not.
