Thanks forward. My ex is definitely going through a lot of anger right now. He is really miserable and you are right, it may not be with me, perhaps OW (bimbo) or perhaps himself. I can't imagine being a Ml'er planning a wedding! It seems like an oxy-moron to me. He has to have so much fear, anxiety in regard to this, especially after him owing me more for child support. He has to feel so stuck and trapped. Wasn't he running away initially from marriage? Kids have reported to me that OW is applying so much pressure in regard to this.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11