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Re: the path is the goal... labug #2236821 04/10/12 03:27 PM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land ~ ~ kd ~ Member
~ kd ~ Member ~ Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land	Everyone has "fixer" in them. The people who come here... they have chosen to go into "fixer" mode specifically around their M... But it does not necessarily mean that they would go out in the world and look for people who have problems and fix those problems for those people... Do you want to solve OTHER peoples problems... or do you want to solve YOUR problems...? Trying to "fix" your H's problems by asking him how he is... are you really trying to fix HIM... or are you really trying to fix YOUR problem by finding what is bothering him, and conforming or otherwise changing to meet his expectations? so that YOU don't have a problem M or R, anymore...? That can get you into a double bind faster than you can say... SQUIRREL...!

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the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 02:24 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	ces67	04/10/12 03:16 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 03:44 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/10/12 04:29 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 12:12 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	ces67	04/10/12 12:17 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 10:09 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	finding nemo	04/10/12 12:25 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/10/12 02:09 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/10/12 02:52 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/10/12 03:27 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 06:45 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/10/12 07:05 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/10/12 07:09 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 09:45 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 09:25 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 09:27 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 10:16 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 02:08 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/11/12 03:09 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 04:08 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/11/12 04:25 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 04:57 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	finding nemo	04/11/12 12:01 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 12:26 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 12:36 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/11/12 01:22 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 02:06 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 02:11 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 07:37 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/11/12 07:54 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 11:28 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/11/12 07:55 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 11:32 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	YankeeCandle	04/11/12 11:51 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/12/12 12:03 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/12/12 02:12 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/12/12 02:30 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	ces67	04/12/12 02:45 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/12/12 03:22 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/12/12 02:34 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/12/12 02:51 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/12/12 03:21 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/12/12 03:25 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/12/12 03:58 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/12/12 05:33 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/12/12 09:41 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 12:25 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/13/12 04:49 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 12:26 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/13/12 12:35 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	cat04	04/13/12 12:40 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 12:56 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 12:53 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	NLW	04/13/12 01:48 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	wishing, hoping	04/13/12 01:55 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 01:56 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/13/12 02:24 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	cat04	04/13/12 02:51 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 05:04 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/13/12 05:34 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 08:04 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/13/12 10:19 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/13/12 10:36 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/14/12 12:09 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/14/12 12:09 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	NLW	04/14/12 12:32 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	NLW	04/14/12 12:33 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/14/12 12:50 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	NLW	04/14/12 01:28 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/14/12 04:09 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/14/12 04:36 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/14/12 06:51 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	cat04	04/14/12 12:47 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:35 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	NLW	04/14/12 01:46 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/14/12 02:12 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	ces67	04/14/12 03:12 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/14/12 09:04 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	Rick1963	04/15/12 02:30 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/15/12 08:17 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/16/12 01:59 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/16/12 10:41 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	NLW	04/16/12 10:55 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/16/12 11:19 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/16/12 11:32 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 03:25 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/17/12 04:13 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	cat04	04/17/12 11:55 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	ces67	04/17/12 12:00 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:31 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/17/12 02:34 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:45 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:40 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:51 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/17/12 06:00 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/18/12 01:45 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/18/12 02:02 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/18/12 03:20 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	ces67	04/18/12 03:36 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/18/12 05:11 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	cat04	04/18/12 12:00 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/18/12 09:59 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/18/12 10:20 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	cat04	04/18/12 11:12 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/19/12 01:13 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/24/12 02:05 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/24/12 04:30 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 02:56 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	NLW	04/25/12 03:13 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 03:18 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	NLW	04/25/12 03:29 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 03:46 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	labug	04/25/12 04:08 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	heartbrokeinsd	04/25/12 04:15 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 04:22 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	heartbrokeinsd	04/25/12 04:35 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 05:00 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 05:04 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 01:44 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 02:05 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	~ kd ~	04/25/12 03:50 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 04:03 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	ces67	04/25/12 03:20 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 04:55 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 02:34 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/25/12 02:39 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/16/12 11:30 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 03:04 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	YankeeCandle	04/17/12 03:04 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	YankeeCandle	04/17/12 02:58 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 03:10 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:52 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:58 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 03:17 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:48 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 02:37 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/17/12 01:36 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	dbmod	05/03/12 02:36 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/14/12 12:17 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 05:41 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	cat04	04/13/12 06:38 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/13/12 07:46 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	ben11	04/12/12 05:32 PM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/11/12 04:14 AM
Re: the path is the goal...	zig	04/10/12 10:13 PM

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