It's so hard not to ask "Are you OK?" "Is anything bothering you?" "Want to talk?" "Are you angry?"

But that will shut them down quicker than anything.

He knows you're there.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss