I did not go to my parents. I felt bad taking my kids from their mother. I told my w that I don't want you to miss out on the kids.I assured my wife that whatever happened with us, she would always have reasonable access to her kids, and that I would never deprive her -- OR them -- of that. My w stated that she can not be in a relationship with any one. I said I understand. I don't want another R with anyone else. I said I guess we'll each have to decide that for ourselves. My w said to me that why do you still try I 'm not that special. I said you are to mebelieve me, there are days when I question what I'm doing, but I did make a commitment, and I intend to do everything I can before making any final decisions.We as a family had a nice peaceful night with the kids watching a movie together. My w actually put away her Blackberry. Bring out the 2X4.