Yes, you should always ask someone first if they want their photos up or not. Some people are very sensitive to it. My son freaked out at Christmas because my daughter tagged him in a family photo where we are all in our pjs. I would not have given it a second thought - but he didn't want all his friends seeing it.
Just be cautious about moving faster than she wants to. Your one day of seeing her this week turned into 3. Which is wonderful - but sometimes the other person doesn't see it that way, especially if they like their "me" time on their days off too.
I'm a person who sometimes does "too much" and I don't feel appreciated. But the funny thing is - when I back off and let someone else do something for me - they seem to want to do it even more. It's one of those curious things about human nature. Give the other person a chance to reciprocate.
