Hi Nemo. It's awful to hear venom from your H, I know. Reading other stories on here you'll see that a lot of WASs do that. If they can demonize you it makes them feel like leaving you is not only ok but necessary. It's part of the script. Just the fact that there is a script helped me not take it so personally. It still hurts, but it's not so much about you as it is about him.
Take him off guard by not taking the bait. Validate his feelings rather than arguing his details.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
