I completely understand your frustration. I'm going to talk to lawyers tomorrow about filing for divorce because I was sick of being pushed to the side for the past 8 weeks and over the past 4 months my h has changed into opposite off what I married. He too had ow so that made it extremely had for me and I don't know if I could ever get over that.
I am also going to preach patience because maybe if I had not overreacted to some things our stitch dcouls be different. However at least your w said she wanted to work on things. My h never made mention of it and stol doesn't even as hes looking for his own place and quit deed the house to me.
My db coach did tell me that if my h ever made the attempt to work on is that they will be chameleon like...ready one minute and then pulling back the next. Because they are afraid of their own feelings.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July