I knew former friend was having marital problems. We talked about it alot. I think he wanted a womans view, which is understandable. I find it easier to talk to woman but such things myself. They have much more insight on things because they can identify with W. But Im not trying to put the.moves on them either. We all have an agreement that if things get weird or inappropriate we will say so. I can see without boundries tempations can happen. And like Ive said before, its not that I cared that they were talking or even what they were talking about, its that they tried to hid it. Thats what hurts the worst. In 2007, the last summer we all.shared together, I happened to find them together in the garage. In very close proximity of each other. I dont know who was more surprised. I was upset because for a year I had worried about the possibility of OM. Afterward W said he wanted to talk about his W but away from the cabin so his children wouldnt hear. He had started to cry so she embraced him. I can understand this as I am a hugger. But I dont remember seeing any tears. W said she was sorry and wouldnt talk to him about personal things anymore. I believed her but have never forgotten how it felt to find them together. My relationship with him was never the same and our contact stopped almost completely. They found new friends. Then of course 3 years later is when the 4 months of daily texting occurred. A year after that he divorced his wife even though she still loved.him and didnt.want it. And Im supposed.to believe that they werent talking about the things she promised that she wouldnt . Whats wrong with.that picture? Am I over thinking that?
