Nemo, you really do have a lot on your plate! Whew. It's horrible when kids are sick. My daughter now 35,had some issues when she was a teenager. Autoimmune stuff. It all turned out ok, but made her a little, sometimes alot of a hypochondriac. She still stuggles with stress. But she does live in NYC. I don't know how she does it Nice place to visit... she lived 4 blocks from the towers when they fell. Had to walk across the Brooklyn Bridge to friends. That whole experience wrecked her for years. She's doing much better no! Just can never stop worrying about them.