Val, why do you allow yourself to stay emotionally connected to someone who has kicked you to the curb? Especially when you have the choice to disconnect yourself from the hurt. You have been doing so well and really should be letting this sort of thing get you down.
I agree with Rick, send her the checks on time and don't worry about whether or not she cashes them. And so what if she is trying to cover herself. That is her business and should not be a concern of yours. You do the same. And let go.
((((Val))))
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife