I feel your pain and I am so sorry you are going through it. I wish I could take everyone's pain away and that you could just tell yourself to stop feeling the heartache and pain!!
You are strong for sticking it out and trying to let your H figure things out to make the right decision. You are right detaching is the hardest part. I am going to talk to lawyers tomorrow about our possible D and I am not even close to being detached. One minute I'm strong and knowing that I don't deserve this...and the next I want him in my arms.
Keep posting and keep up the good hard work. It will pay off some day!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
