When I told H about the room he was angry. He threatned to move money. I told him to do what he has to, we will see lawyers, get the divorce rolling. Much more nastiness. I heard about his hard earned money, how I'm trying to control him, how he wants the master bedroom.
When I reminded him he said he would swith rooms he didn't remember that conversation. When I told him that if OW started back up with the texting/emailing me over this I would contact police he informed me that she broke up with him.
How could OW break up with him over the room, when you just told him about it and in the same convo he told you she broke up with him??? LOL
The craziness in their minds with the MLC depression is sometimes not to be believed.
And IF OW actually said that (you can't actually believe anything coming out of your H's mouth right now, you know) - then she really is an incredible whack job. Which we already knew.
It's a good thing though that he is finally admitting that she is behind the emails. And probably that's the real reason for the breakup, cuz he finally called her on that - which is good.
He may not be able to hear it from you, but if there is anybody else in his life who can suggest antidepressants to him, now would be a good time.
(And you're right, he complained about the power cords cuz he couldn't find anything else wrong to complain about.)
I think she has broke up with him at least twice in the past 3 days..... It is very confusing
H talked to OW last night for awhile while the kids were here. And I think in the manner of 8th Graders she REALLY Broke UP with him, at least in his mind, this time. I have heard it so many times from him.
I just get that old song "Breakup to Makeup" in my head with all the gyrations those two have been through. And I thought more about her saying she was breaking up with him for sure because he didn't make me move out of the master bedroom.
She is a nut and wants to punish me. I have said from the start that she decided she wanted my life and it sure seems she is trying to get it. Sometimes I'm not even sure what this is all about. Except it comes with a large side order of CRAZY!
But I believe she wants him to fight with me more. Which I don't and never have. My mom was a fighter and a screamer. Still is...... I think I based my marriage and life on being the opposite. All well and good except the part where he and I don't know how to get over problems except by ignoring them....
KML: You suggested a book to someone called : "The Sociopath Next Door". I think OW is a sociopath. Other friends of mine told me they hated her on sight.
I said to one friend I felt dumb for missing it. (This is a smart friend, BTW) My friend told me that OW seemed to act differently towards me, she was kinder and nicer to me. My friend felt like she (OW) liked me and was therefore nicer to me than to my friends.
OW (Posing as my friend) also started cutting me off from my friends. Classic sociopath behaviour. And towards the end of our friendship I caught her in several lies. If I ahd used the 3 strike rule I would have had her out of my life sooner. I think she already had her hooks into my H by then.
I am ordering that book. I clearly need to work on my boundaries! And if I'm going to re-enter the dating world I should be learning how to protect against that sort of person.
I wonder if maybe one of my sons could bring up antidepressants with my H? I've thought he was depressed for awhile, but he is one of those genuine pill hating people. He is pretty healthy, other than his back. He takes only a few vitamins and no perscription meds.
I know from reading some of your early posts that I can't just slip them in his OJ! Too bad!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
