My H and I were talking today about how many problems my car has been having recently. And, when I think about when it all started - it was just around the time that I said, "No texts/emails/visits unless it's an emergency." Basically, I was trying to get a grip on myself.
OMG!
On the very day that I said to my H that I want no more contact, my dad called me at 6AM to tell me that my mother had just gone into the hospital and if I could be there. I was a few hours away and it took me time to get there. He then said he would call my H to go there as he was closer to look after her (my dad was in another country at the time). My H happily agreed and took care of my mother that day until I could get there.
Every week since then, either my car or one of our cats has been having 'an emergency'. My car or cats have NEVER had so many problems all at the same time.
I do think the Universe is working over time.
I think I better lift the 'emergency' condition on an energetic level.