Yankee! I wish those emails meant more than emails, but don't look too much into them. HOWEVER!! do see it as a small step.
Hi Vero, I know I shouldn't see it more than it is - but I do because I am the one who shut everything down. He used to come over every weekend for a day to just hang. After a month of that, my heart was just going nuts. So I asked him to stop coming over and to stop emailing/texting unless it was for an emergency. That was February. He did stop for a while...and then these emails slowly started up and texts. At first it was one a week, then 3 a week, and now it seems nearly every day. In fact, I think only 3 days go by without some contact. And before, I was the one who was primarily emailing - but now he is taking full initiative on that front.
So the fact that we are emailing just about silly recipes, well, he clearly wants to connect.
And, you are absolutely correct. This is going to be a slow process.
Also...H lingering at your house must've been nice! Also, a small step
Yeah, small step - thanks for helping to keep my heart safe
Regarding Rose Bowl, H and I would always make plans to go together but his gym classes always took priority [/quote]
OOOHH, I see!! Was he a gym instructor, or just a gym goer? My H also got into his gym big style. I know how you feel.
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