Originally Posted By: mykarma
It has been a long time since i posted to my sitch. I guess when things 'seem' to be going good, i got lazy.


yup...

but you don't have to see it as a bad thing...

It is good you noticed that you DID get complacent... things were going good and you began to have expectations again...

....

and so did your W...

She believes she is putting in effort to work on herself and possibly the M...

and she IS...

Let your W lead... if there's a backslide, take it easy... back off a bit and let her come back to the table...

Keep doing the good work... or go back to it if you dropped that...

And don't hide in a hole, just because you got anxious...

It is OK to slow things down a bit, if you feel rushed...

Let her lead, but in the same vein as what I read jb's post... if you need to slow it down a bit, then be sure to let her know...

"W, I am very happy you want to build a better relationship between us. I do, as well. I am simply feeling a little rushed and hope you understand."