Thanks for your feedback Jbnati:

The more i look at it, I think i handled it ok. But over the years it has become so bad that i am second guessing myself everytime. I want to reach a point where i am confident about the way i handle a situation. It has been getting better, but there are times like this.

I never push any of my meetups or any activities i do to get better on my W. But somehow i had this uneasy feeling that she was pushing her IC on me. I tried to take that in stride, but i guess it was not good enough.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...