Gunny, if your W is such a people pleaser, she's just going to go through this all over again with someone else if she can't work through it with you. Her relief is going to be temporary.

I do hope these are the signs of some "re-building" blocks for you.

Originally Posted By: gunny

Are we that rich in friends that we can afford to discard them awhen times get a little tough?

I hear you on this one, buddy. I'd say the answer to this is probably not. It may take discarding some good friends to learn that you have good friends, though. I would say by doing so, she's not being a very good friend to you.

PS - thought of you this weekend when I saw a truck parked out in the street with a special Marines license plate personalized with "GUN E". smile

Hang in there, buddy.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26