I don't think much has changed since Cassanova's day regarding differences in how men and women are turned on. Men and women are wired differently, and those who are most successful in love embrace these differences and use them to their benefit.
Really, women feel threatened by men who want to learn to verbally seduce us? I thought we were only worried about the guys who were too physically aggressive?
Greenblue, I'm interested to see how your attempts at charming your wife go!