Thanks Barb, the tears were silent and they were nice tears. She was very sweet about them. I guess our talk and everything else just made me realize she really does care for me. What an awesome feeling! She told me she felt so comfortable with me, she felt like she could tell me anything and it would be OK. She liked that she could cry with me and that was OK too. She likes that I'm looking to build a long term relationship with trust and love...before asking for you know what. The few other guys she dated briefly all wanted sex after the first date...and that was their last date! But that I am gentle, respectful, affectionate and loving. She said she's not against us doing "S-E-X" she just wants it to be when it feels right and not just an act done for fun. I said I totally agreed. I told her that I felt I could just be myself around her, I didn't need to impress her by pretending to be someone other than myself. She said "I like you as you are" It was very special, I felt that we confirmed that we're both committed to seeing this out together. Where it goes, who can ever really know. I told her that her laugh was infectious and she said "so you mean I'm a virus lol?" So we talked... and kissed for probably an hour. Today, we're going to the Science Centre and then dropping over to visit her best friend...so she can check me out lol!