Ssmguy I think the fact that we have allowed one to be the appropriate and the other in inappropriate is the biggest issue.
Men are chastised for being low creatures who want visual stimulation and physical stimulation. Women are seeing as more civil for wanting mental and verbal stimulation.
Yet women say that wearing revealing clothing and making themselves visually appealing is empowerment while any guy that says he'd like to learn how to learn how to verbally seduce a woman is made out to be a threat to society.
