W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P2

[Snowman]

Twom7-Thanks for the support and recommendation on Mort Fortel's Marriage Fitness. I signed up for the emails for now. I love your statements and plan on looking at them each day. I agree that men are fixers and I fall into that category. I will try to stay positive and thanks for reminding me I'm not alone. Its hard to remember that all the time.

Chatterbug-I agree that saying I have changed is a pointless endeavor but she made the comment to me in the text. We did talk about that in the last face to face communication so thats why she referred to it in text. I agree with you actions not words

She usually texts me before calling to see if she can talk to our S so I guess she is somewhat respecting my time but I don't do this to her because I find it annoying, confuses our S, and awkward because she hangs up to avoid conversation. She got mad at me a while back by saying that I was avoiding her phone calls to our S so I have fielded them. Her calling this weekend really bothers me because she most likely hanging with the OM in the other state and has totally conceded anytime with our S but she wants to call. Family asks me when she is getting our S and I say she is not because she chose to go out of town.

The doctor call was a voice mail saying they had the results and that she would have to call to get them. I know what the results are for and it is not a big deal.

Yes lawyers love to communicate for us and charge me for every email but yes I get the point but I still think she is chicken.

I do know what I have become and I'm working on planting my feet again. We almost always communicate through email or text so no problem there.

Thanks again for all the feedback and support. This support group is what I need for objectivity and learning. Catch you on the flipside.