Those are the complications they choose to make. I too am very close to XW. Three blocks away. It's good to be close because if they forget something it isn't far and it's the same bus route so there's no transitioning.
But I have gone over there and seen OM there -- and that was a shock. There's two events left this spring he may be at and I'm trying to gear myself up for them. After that, I should be able to avoid her/him until late summer.
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