Originally Posted By: breakdownbill
YC

Ah thanks for telling me all that. Try not to worry about backsliding too much, you are doing so good with your GAL!!!


Thank you! Yes,, GAL has been easy for me thank goodness smile

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As much as I love my W and want to save my M, I can only do so much & this still might not be enough to convince my W to give it another go in the future. But you know what, this is OK, because I know I'll find happiness either way. These changes are not for my W, these are for ME and this is my choice and nobody else's.

Bill


Well said! I think I am getting to that realisation too - that it's more for me than anything else. I feel I am giving myself more options with that attitude, and again, I'm ever so grateful for everyone sharing their experiences here.


Thanks!