Oh, I also called H's mom to see if she was able to talk to him and she said she did. She couldn't talk to me though because she was on her way out the door to go to the airport. That left me feeling completely helpless and anxious.
She said she would call me later. But I have a feeling she won't. She is so much like my H it isn't even funny. They never talk about anything important. Nothing will ever get brought up unless I do it. It's soooooo FRUSTRATING!!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
I feel your pain and I am so sorry you are going through it. I wish I could take everyone's pain away and that you could just tell yourself to stop feeling the heartache and pain!!
You are strong for sticking it out and trying to let your H figure things out to make the right decision. You are right detaching is the hardest part. I am going to talk to lawyers tomorrow about our possible D and I am not even close to being detached. One minute I'm strong and knowing that I don't deserve this...and the next I want him in my arms.
Keep posting and keep up the good hard work. It will pay off some day!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
