I know Im being a smart A$$, but i can't help it. Gee IT [censored] TO BE HIM RIGHT NOW DOESN'T IT?
You know I was looking over a book called the Goddess Queen or Queen Goddess and how to be one. My Dear Wendy, you really are the Queen Goddess. You have held your head up high, kept moving forward, kept doing positive and productive things, and have treated him kindly, but firmly. You truly are a wonderful role model for all of us!
This will be an interesting show as to how he acts now. I agree with kml, he is in a painful and confusing place. I just hope he can get smart, and work on figuring out how he got there.
My daughter and I came up with a sad but true saying: " The pain helps you learn".