I just want to be friends...

[BklynMom]

Hey YC, just caught up on your thread. I really liked how your C is helping you reframe things. That is so important right now. Many of our Non-DB friends like to frame things in the negative and it is extremely hard to turn that around.

Onto your the current email sitch - while I think its a great sign that your H is sending you these emails dont get your hopes up. In some ways it shows you how crazy he is right now. Most people that are breaking up dont reach out looking for recipes.

Although its a good sign, it also is a long journey. Dont mention your R just continue to let him reach out to you. One day it will click for him but nothing you say can make it click sooner.

Keep track of the positives, like the emails in a private notepad and keep doing what works!