Hi All! I wrote a long post about the room switch and the computer ate it. I'll try again.

I picked H up at airport due to S22 being in the ER earlier in the day with Migraine, sinus infection, broncitis, asthma and allergic reaction causing his eye lids to swell up. (He just started a new job, something there triggered this....)

When I told H about the room he was angry. He threatned to move money. I told him to do what he has to, we will see lawyers, get the divorce rolling. Much more nastiness. I heard about his hard earned money, how I'm trying to control him, how he wants the master bedroom.

When I reminded him he said he would swith rooms he didn't remember that conversation. When I told him that if OW started back up with the texting/emailing me over this I would contact police he informed me that she broke up with him.

I told him I had made "HIS" bedroom nice for him and he exploded with rage that it wasn't "HIS" bedroom. I responded that it was now, he made the choice to leave the marraige, he get the guest room.

Then as I was pulling into driveway he said not to park straight, because he was leaving to stay on the boat. I got out, he jumped into the drivers seat and roared away. I sent a text reminding him to turn the wind genertor on for power.

I came up to bed. About 10 minutes later he came home and went to bed in his new room. I stayed out of the way.

One of the things he said on the ride was how he was looking forward to doing Easter with the family in the morning. I told him we were not doing it til later due to my DIL's work schedule.

I refrained from telling him that for any such plans to have been made he would have to have TALKED to someone, not just assume status quo.

I also made it plain that I am done and moving on. Very plain.


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
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