Thank you, kimmerz! Also, I'm reading the Jed Diamond book that you recommended. It's really helping me better understand what's happening and helps me stay in a place of compassion. I'm so grateful to you and the others for sharing your experience and wisdom with me. Isn't it amazing the time and energy that we put into understanding, excepting and forgiving someone who hasn't a clue as to what's happening to them. I'm praying for healing and happiness for all of us.