Ver - I havent really seen any changes in my H behavior towards me. He is cold and distant. My H ILYBNILWY speech came totally out of no where. We were bidding on a house at the time. I knew our relationship wasnt perfect but we snuggled every night and I thought both deeply loved each other. Since the night he told me he didnt love me, he has not budged an inch closer to me. He has said he sees my changes but it too late he is too broken, its too over, he feels nothing for me.
It is so much clearer now, almost a year later how little this had to do with me. I was not the perfect W but my H actions are a complete meltdown. To go from "I love you" one day to never giving me another chance when we have 2 young daughters together is insane. He really is a fool. I pray for him.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
