We started marriage counseling & now he wants out

[finding nemo]

Hi 25,

You make it so clear and sound so easy. I wish I could radiate at least that exterior right now.

I know that as a wife, I can't get angry at my H, I don't know why. However, I am deeply hurt by my H's actions. But, as a mommy, I am livid at my children's father for acting like a spoiled child and not doing anything to soothe his children's fear or try to co-parent.

How do you handle that part as you're trying to protect your kids and keep their suffering to a minimum?

(Sorry for the hijack.)