Sometimes its hard to believe that its a disease. Its a cancer of their psyche. Like cancer some people have 1 round of chemo and are cured, others battle for years and never make it to the other side.
Your W has a disease, it is now in Gods hands.
Count your blessings and be grateful for your healthy children.
You are so right Brkyln Babe! Maybe this will turn out better for you and family than here? I hope so for you, girls and yes, your H.