1) Love songs are about the future, not about what was lost. Listen to them as a hope of what can be, will be, and what you want. The tears will stop.
2) Download the "other songs" to your phone/iPod/CD and title it along the lines of "pick me up", "need a laugh", "screw you"....
the other songs being
Cheater cheater by Joey and Rory King of anything by Sara Bareilles It's my life, by Bon Jovi 50 ways to leave your lover, by paul simon Bye, Bye by Joe Dee Messina better man, better off, Tracy Lawerence didn't know my own strength, Lorrie MOrgan F.O.D. by Green day (one of my favorites once you know what F.O. D stands for) Hit the road Jack by Ray Charles I'm MOving on by Rascal Flatts Better things to do, Terri Clark Believe in Love, by cher How do you like me now, Tobi Keith Since you've been gone, Kelly Clarkson Stronger, Britney Spears Strong enough, cher You're so vain, Carly Simon Gonna get a life, Mark Chestnutt Mr. Know it all, Kelly Clarkson
there are a lot more, but you get the idea!! I tend to go for the faster paced, upbeat tempo ones
When you feel like crap, blare it on the speakers and dance around the house, sing out loud while driving...